1.
"I
understand
how
you
feel,
but
can
we
talk
about
this
calmly?"
【温柔】
2.
"Let's
try
to
see
things
from
each
other's
perspective.
"
【高级】
3.
"I
value
and
respect
your
opinion,
but
I
also
have
my
own.
"
【简短】
4.
"I
don't
want
to
argue,
I
just
want
to
find
a
solution
that
works
for
both
of
us.
"
【温柔】
5.
"Let's
take
a
deep
breath
and
try
to
communicate
without
shouting.
"
【高级】
6.
"I'm
sorry
if
I
said
something
that
hurt
you,
can
we
talk
about
it?"
【简短】
7.
"I
don't
want
to
attack
you,
I
just
want
to
express
how
I
feel.
"
【温柔】
8.
"If
we
can't
find
a
solution
right
now,
let's
agree
to
revisit
this
later.
"
【高级】
9.
"Words
can
hurt,
let's
try
to
choose
them
carefully.
"
【简短】
10.
"I
don't
want
to
make
you
feel
defensive,
but
I
need
to
express
my
concerns.
"
【温柔】
11.
"I
don't
want
to
escalate
this
argument,
can
we
take
a
break?"
【高级】
12.
"When
we
yell,
we
don't
hear
each
other,
can
we
try
to
talk
calmly?"
【简短】
13.
"I
don't
want
to
blame
you,
I
just
want
to
find
a
solution
together.
"
【温柔】
14.
"Let's
try
to
listen
to
each
other
without
interrupting.
"
【高级】
15.
"I
didn't
mean
to
offend
you,
can
you
tell
me
how
I
can
avoid
doing
that?"
【简短】
16.
"I
feel
like
we're
not
really
hearing
each
other,
can
we
try
to
rephrase
our
points?"
【温柔】
17.
"If
we
can't
find
a
solution,
let's
agree
to
disagree
respectfully.
"
【高级】
18.
"I
apologize
for
my
part
in
this
argument,
can
we
move
forward?"
【简短】
19.
"I
don't
want
to
fight,
I
just
want
to
find
a
way
to
compromise.
"
【温柔】
20.
"Let's
try
to
focus
on
the
issue
at
hand,
rather
than
attacking
each
other
personally.
"
【高级】